Couples Kink Coach
One of the reasons I love coaching couples in BDSM is knowing you’ve chosen to be open with each other about what you desire (or what is missing) within your sex life, intimacy or expression. You’ve bravely decided to open Pandora's Box together and dive deeper into your relationship.
You’ve may have been with your partner for many years, you still love each other but the flame in your sex life has cooled. You're not even sure how to talk about it. I'm a catalyst to re-ignite passion, practice erotic skills and communication in a non-judgmental setting.
You’ve been wanting to try new tricks in the bedroom or have fantasies you want to play out. You may just be curious after 50 Shades of Grey came out (please don’t get your D/s education from that movie!)
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Setting up a safe container for playtime
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Speak up: The art of dirty talk
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Spanking 101
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Learning new erotic technique
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Getting creative with with impact: floggers, canes, paddles and homehold items ("pervertables")
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Playing with the senses- smell, touch, taste
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Sensation play with restraints and sensory deprivation (blindfolds, headphones)
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Exploring gender play
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Playing dress up: Fetish wear, lingerie, stockings, shoes
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Using pillows, wedges, props and sex furniture for ease and comfort. I love the Black Label support furniture from Liberator and use it in my sensual bondage sessions.)
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Expanding your circle: Finding your kinky community on Fetlife and sex-positive events.
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Trying on threesomes: communication, trust and checking in with the third.