READ ME

Do you see women?

I welcome women, trans folk, couples and bodies of all sizes, colors and abilities. I only see adults who are at least 21 years of age.

What are your fees?

  • My rates start at $250/hour with a minimum 2 hours for our initial session.

  • Couples sessions are the same rate as individuals, but I recommend booking 3-4 hours to get the full experience.

  • If you would like me to visit you (have me travel to your city), my minimum is five hours and packages start at $2k. Packages include all my travel fees as well as location. 

  • After our inital session, I offer shorter future sessions.  $350/hour, $450/90 minutes. These limited spots are only available when I have another booking in the studio on that day. 

What's the typical structure of a session?

A two hour session may be look like this: In the first half hour we'll chat over tea and discuss what kind of experiences you’re seeking. We will do a trust and submission ritual, then we launch! 15-20 minutes is post-session for aftercare and a shower if you desire.

 

Why do you require an application fee?

Checking references, emailing back and forth with questions takes time and I don't work with an office manager. If you want to know how to make your best impression when contacting me for a session (or any professional) read this. 

Once I've gone over your application, we will have a brief phone interview to go over expectations, etiquette and logistics. To book the date, I require a $125 deposit for sessions taking place at my Portland studio. If I'm on the road traveling I require a 50% deposit. 

 

I process deposits in a few discreet methods; I'll give details after our phone call. 

What is your cancellation policy?

If you cancel our appointment with less than 5 days notice for any reason, your deposit will be used towards a future appointment. If it's less than 24 hours notice, you will forfeit your deposit. If I have to cancel for any reason (I only did it once!) you will get your deposit back with apologies and I will give an extra 30 minutes in our next session.

 

May I bring you a gift?

Gifts are never expected but I cherish them! You may purchase something off my wish list or bring me a present. Lingerie and clothing sizes: bra 34 DD/F, panty M/L, dress size 8, shoe size 8. Fresh flowers (stargazer lillies are my favorite), dessert wines. Giftcards.You can never go wrong with the simplicity of hard cash and it's honestly the best way to please me.

 Can I see you today?

If you're seeing me for the first time, I'll need a few days to verify you and I give priority to established clients. Verification can take a few days so plan head. 

Where are you located?

I do most sessions at my Portland sanctuary but also travel to Seattle and San Francisco every few months. I offer fly-me-to-you packages anywhere in the US. I post my travel dates on my Twitter account. 

What are some of your favorite activities? 

I love Sensation Play BDSM! I'm in full creative expression mode; you get to be my canvas and experience a somatic masterpiece.

  • Tease and denial, tie and tease, tickling. Sensory deprivation/sensory overload

  • Restriction, edging. FBSM, sensual massage, prostate massage, pegging, CBT, teasing with my feet

  • Masturbation witnessing, coaching and instruction

  • 'Dark' Tantra- Taoist Erotic Massage: bringing you deep into subspace, coaching with a focus on breathing

  • Bringing you to your orgasmic edge, pushing your boundaries and bringing you back

  • Role play: CFNM, Chastity/keyholder, Mommy/child, Teacher/student, Doctor/patient, Alien probing the helpless earthling 

  • Cuckolding, Voyeur/exhibitionist play

  • Service – focus on my pleasure, listen to what I ask for 

  • Impact Play – Spanking, flogging, whipping, caning

  • Feminization coaching and transformation – cross dressing, "Sissification", clothes shopping

  • Fetish – Foot fetish, nylon stockings, gloves. Smooth, shiny, rubber, vinyl textures. Shoe, heels, leather, lingerie fetish

  • Goddess worship (clothed)*

  • Objectification - Human furniture, financial domination/findom 

  • Outside- the-box Dates – Shopping, spas, fine dining, travel companion

  • Couples Coaching: role playing, techniques and after-care

What are some of your boundaries? 

  • Switching/subbing.

  • *I do not allow worship/contact of any part of my body that is typically covered by a bikini. If I choose to take off clothing, it is my choice and never an expectation on your part. 

  • Goddess worship is clothing on.

  • I don't do sounding, blood play or extreme breath play.

  • I don't work with scripts for role play, however I do enjoy being in character and organically creating scenarios and predicaments. If there's a particular outfit you want me to wear for a session, let me know what you have in mind. I'll put it on my wish list, send you the link to purchase and I'll have it ready for our session.

  • Any activities that are unsafe, non-consensual or illegal.

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