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What's the typical structure of a session?

Once I've gone over your initial application, we will schedule a brief phone interview to go over expectations, etiquette and logistics. Before you arrive at my studio, I may give some pre-session homework assigments to do depending on what your interests are. In our initial session, we'll have a frank chat over tea to discuss what kind of experiences you’re seeking, boundaries and limits. I structure some post-session time for aftercare and shower time if you desire.

 

Do you see women?

I welcome women, trans folk, couples and bodies of all sizes, colors and abilities. I only see adults who are at least 21 years of age.

What are your fees at your Portland studio?

  • $550 for the initial introduction session (Two hours.)

  •  Future sessions: 

  • One hour $375 

  • 90 minutes $500 

  • Two hours $600

  • Three hours $900

  • Full Day Immersion Playshop $1500

  • This is a structured,  custom designed workshop with breaks and snacks. We will have a video conference call before we meet to go over what you want to get out of the session and answer questions. Some of the things I like to incorporate are teaching somatic skills like the art of sensual touch; erotic rituals; power exchange; coaching couples to bring the kink back into the bedroom. The end of the evening can end with dinner, chat and feedback (meal cost not included in fees.) Couples are the same rate as individuals.

 

 To book the date, I require a small deposit for sessions taking place at my Portland studio. I process deposits in a few discreet methods; I'll give details after our phone call. If you would like to session in a dungeon play space (more creative opportunities for bondage fantasies!) I will need at least a week's notice to check availability. The play space fee will be added to your deposit. 

 

 

If you would like me to travel to your city (Seattle, San Francisco, Las Vegas, any major city on the west coast) I offer packages that include all my travel fees and location starting at $2k. I often offer shorter first-time sessions when I'm in a new city but need a few days to screen if you're new, so contact me before I'm in your city.  

What is your cancellation policy?

If you cancel our appointment with less than 5 days notice for any reason, your deposit will be used towards a future appointment. If it's less than 24 hours notice, you will forfeit your deposit. If I have to cancel for any reason (I only did it once!) you will get your deposit back with apologies and I will give an extra 30 minutes in our next session.

 

May I bring you a gift?

Gifts are never expected but I cherish them! You may purchase something off my wish list, a little something to help my house renovation project and/or bring me a present. Lingerie and clothing sizes: bra 34 DD panty M/L, dress size 8, shoe size 8. Fresh flowers (stargazer lillies are my favorite) and dessert wines. 

 Can I see you today?

If you're seeing me for the first time, I may need a few days to go over your application, set up a call and receive your deposit. I give priority to established students, so plan ahead.

Who are your ideal students? 

The people I want to spend time with are submissive or at least willing to let go of their agenda and experience pleasure from serving me. I get a sense in their vulnerability and honesty in their initial inquiry. I don't see everyone that applies as they may be seeking something I don't provide or very demanding in their tone.  If you want to know how to make your best impression when contacting me (or any professional) read this. 

Where are you located?

I do most sessions at my Portland sanctuary but also travel to Seattle and San Francisco every few months. I offer fly-me-to-you packages anywhere in the US. I post my travel dates on my Twitter account. 

What are some of your favorite activities? 

I love Sensation Play BDSM! I'm in full creative expression mode; you get to be my canvas and experience a somatic masterpiece. If we can't meet in person, role playing, erotic hypnosis and ASMR.

  • Tease and denial, tie and tease, tickling. Sensory deprivation/sensory overload

  • Restriction, edging. FBSM, sensual massage, prostate massage, pegging, strap on, CBT (more 'Tie and Tease' than 'Torture'); foot and leg worship

  • Masturbation witnessing, coaching and JOI

  • 'Dark' Tantra- Taoist Erotic Massage: bringing you deep into subspace, coaching with a focus on breath.

  • Bringing you to your edge, pushing your boundaries and bringing you back

  • Role play: CFNM, Chastity/keyholder, Mommy/child, Teacher/student, Doctor/patient, Alien probing the helpless earthling  (my favorite!)

  • Cuckolding, Voyeur/exhibitionist play

  • Service – focus on my pleasure, listen to what I ask for 

  • Impact Play – Spanking, flogging, whipping, caning

  • Feminization coaching and transformation – cross dressing, "Sissification", making you into my slutty little girl

  • Fetish – Foot fetish, nylon stockings, gloves. Smooth, silky, shiny, rubber, vinyl clothing. Shoe, heels, leather, fetish.

  • Goddess worship*

  • Financial domination/findom

  • Outside- the-box Dates – Shopping, spas, fine dining, travel companion

  • Couples Coaching: role playing, techniques and after-care

What are some of your boundaries? 

  • Switching/subbing

  • *I do not allow worship/contact of any part of my body that is typically covered by a bikini. If I choose to take off clothing, it is my choice and never an expectation on your part 

  • I don't work with scripts for role play, however I do enjoy being in character and organically creating scenarios and predicaments. If there's a particular outfit you want me to wear for a session, I'll put it on my wish list, send you the link to purchase and I'll have it ready for our session

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