Mistress M is a dominatrix based in Portland, Seattle and San Francisco. She is busty, curvy, mature, experienced, over 40, dominant woman with short hair. Specializing in sensual domination, pegging, strap on, prostate massage, erotic massage and tantra, bondage, kink, tease and denial, CBT, edging, foot fetish, leg fetish, submissive fantasy, older woman fantasy, age play fantasy, mommy role play, sissy roleplay, cross dressing, male to female transformation. She is an experienced sensual dominatrix in Seattle, San Francisco and Boston. As a sex therapist alternative. I work with men with erectile disfunction (ED), orgasm control through tantra practice. I help sexless marriages and teach couples through kink workshops, hands-on classes to bring the spark back into their sex life.
Fees + Logistics
What's a first time session with you like?
I like to break the ice with a relaxed chat and get to know what's inside that kinky little head-- What you want to experience, what scares and/or arouses you. Your boundaries, limits and what you want to deeply feel and explore. We do a little breathing exercise to ground you and then I launch you into orbit : ) Sessions are bespoke, but I am the one directing so you can let go of your thoughts, drop into your body and just feel. I like to incorporate sensation play, tie and tease, erotic bodywork and dark tantra.
Where are located?
Generally I'm in the Portland, Oregon area and can meet you at your upscale hotel suite when you're visiting, or I can book us a hotel or even a fun fetish space for an additional fee. I do not tour but I do post travel dates pinned on my Twitter (note, if you want to book a session when I'm in your city, you need to do it before I'm in your city as I travel with an oversized bag of goodies just for sessions. I will also require screening, a deposit a week before to hold the date as I only see one client per day for Covid safety measures.)
Two hours $1000
90 minutes $900
One hour $800
Dominance, Drinks and Dessert (my favorite!)
Two hours in private followed by a decadent dinner at a nearby restaurant. I will make all the reservations and arrangements including the location fee. You are responsible for any expenses outside of the room.
The Fine Print, READ ME
While I'm delighted if you want to call yourself Ms. M Little Boy Fucktoy or Sissy Slut Sarah-- But before we meet, I will need to know who you really are for private in-person sessions. I offer several ways to verify yourself. I take everyone's privacy very seriously and I never share your information with anyone-- I am the only one who looks at our correspondence. If you don't wish you share this through email, you can verify yourself over the phone after sending in your application fee.
To confirm a session, I require a 50% deposit. I offer several discreet ways to pay.
I am a sensual dominatrix, bodyworker and fantasy role player. I do not offer escort services.
While I adore role playing with devoted submissives, you don't need to indentify that way for sensation play and erotic bodywork. However, I run the ship. I am always in control the session and I never switch. You are always in charge of your own boundaries.
Sometimes things get in the way of plans. Read my cancellation policies.
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