• Mistress Marlena

I’ve Got You Pegged: Pleasuring the Prostate and Sensual Strap-on Play

Updated: Mar 10, 2019


Mistress M in her aroused state

I’ve been asked by my submissives, “But Mistress, how can I pleasure YOU?”


Simple. I take pleasure in ravishing men’s asses and taking their virginity as my prize.


I love the power of giving men permission to simply experience sensation and let go of the pressure that they need to be pleasuring me in a session (dominating is MY pleasure). When their anus is clenched tight, I coach them through their breathing to let go, relax their sphincter muscles and completely trust me. I start with a gloved finger and I just tease in circles the outer rim, also known as a rose bud massage. Then I slowly keep circling back and forth as if I was dialing a rotary phone. Then I wait, and just like a door being unlocked I feel an opening and I’m finally pulled inside for the party. I hear a gasp, a moan and very vocal reactions:

“Whoa..WowWowWOWWOW!”…


“Umm..ooh…ahhh”…


’“OH MY GOD MISS M…TAKE ME! TAKE ME FUCK ME HARD! HARDER! HARDER!!”


Sometimes it’s, “Ooof…'yellow' ” (their ‘safe word’ to let me know to back off.)


The prostate is full of nerve endings and it lies a similar spot to where the G-spot is located inside the vagina. If you stick your finger up your anus a few inches and curl your finger in a “come hither” motion you can feel it. I love introducing anal play to straight men who’ve been afraid of playing with their ass for fear of it “making them gay” (huh?) or that it’s “dirty” (as in ‘taboo’), or dirty (messy) from excrement (*See my post on How to Clean Your Ass Before Anal Play.)


A small percentage of men can ejaculate from prostate massage alone. It 's close to the statistic that only 18% of women can orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone, so I like to think of the prostate in relation to the penis like the g-spot is in relation to the clitoris. Prostate “milking” is similar to stimulating the g-spot in women which can result in “squirting” orgasms. yum!


Many submissives have told me they were more empathetic to a woman’s vulnerability during intercourse after being penetrated with a dildo. There are also health benefits to getting your ass pegged— Men who suffer from erectile disfunction and have the urge to pee all the time (as the prostate can swell up as men age) can benefit from having their prostate massaged regularly.


Read about my post about prostate massage, strap-on toys and anal play tips


Tags: Pegging, anal sex, prostate massage, strap on sex

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