Mistress M is a dominatrix based in Portland, Seattle and San Francisco. She is busty, curvy, mature, experienced, over 40, dominant woman with short hair. Specializing in sensual domination, pegging, strap on, prostate massage, erotic massage and tantra, bondage, kink, tease and denial, CBT, edging, foot fetish, leg fetish, submissive fantasy, older woman fantasy, age play fantasy, mommy role play, sissy roleplay, cross dressing, male to female transformation. She is an experienced sensual dominatrix in Seattle, San Francisco and Boston. As a sex therapist alternative. I work with men with erectile disfunction (ED), orgasm control through tantra practice. I help sexless marriages and teach couples through kink workshops, hands-on classes to bring the spark back into their sex life.
Intimacy, Kink + Sexuality coaching
Everyone has questions about their body, their turn-on, fantasies and wondering what is "normal".
As a somatic sex educator (Certified Sexological Bodyworker, CSB) I've been professionally trained to do hands-on erogenous body work, teach the art of pleasure, communicate desire and heal sexual shame. ‘Embodiment’ which is deeper presence, awareness and understanding of what is going on in your body and in sex.
My students are curious, open to exploring their erotic selves on a deeper level and become 'Master Lovers' as receivers and givers. They are all genders, sexual preferences, married, polyamorous, monogamous, single, young and old. I work with adults 18 and older.
Coping with 'erectile disfunction' (ED)
Tantra to prolong pleasure and delay ejaculation
Questioning gender and coming out
Feminization, cross dressing with confidence*
Feeling shame or embarrassment*
Sexually inexperienced or a virgin
Trying out sex toys
Asking for exactly what you want in the bedroom
Sex during menopause and coping with vaginismus
Having difficult conversations about sex with your partner
Learning Dominance/submission play
Strap-on play, pegging and prostate pleasure
I also offer one or two day emersion playshops for couples.
Hiring an kink coach is like working with a sex therapist, a couples counselor and a trusted confidante. I listen without judgement while taking an outcome based approach. I am the catalyst to empower my students.
*If feeling "ashamed" ,"humiliated", "inadequate" is a turn-on (empowering), you have a humiliation fetish. I love role playing kinky fetishes as a dominatrix (not in my coaching work). Book a Role Play Fantasy session instead.
Coaching sessions are not a one-session-and-fixed deal. They require a commitment to a regular practice. Before you commit, we will have an introduction to discuss your needs, goals and answer your questions about coaching in a 20 minute phone call. The $75 fee will be credited back to your coaching sessions or a package.
Individual coaching sessions by phone or video $225/hour
One month package of four one hour sessions, $800
Questions and Answers
Can I book coaching sessions as well as fantasy sessions?
Yes, however-- you need to understand they are very different sessions, even though there's a sexual component to both. When I'm coaching, I am a teacher; Not a Mistress or Domina. Fantasy role play is fun but you won't be changing any behaviors or working towards any person goals. If you start steering the conversation into fetish or fantasy, I will stop the conversation and redirect you. If you do it again I will have to end our call and I do not give refunds.
Are you a licensed therapist?
No. If you are seeking therapy, I have a list of sex-positive and kink affirming professionals I can refer you to.
What company do you use for video sessions?
I prefer using Zoom (password encrypted) but I'm open to other applications. I use encrypted technology for phone calls, texts and emails.
I'm worried about my privacy.
I don't share your personal information with anyone. For credit card processing, you will not see my name, or anything associated with my name or website on your billing statement.
To schedule your introductory call for coaching, email me.
Let me know a little bit of your background and some times to schedule our call. I will get back to you within 48 hours. The $75 fee for our introduction call will be credited back when you book a session or a package.