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Verification and Screening


For my safety, I do need proof of your identity for in-person sessions. If you wish to stay anonymous, book an online session or public meetup (you must be an adult over the age of 21 for both in-person and online sessions.)

I need at least two of the following:


  • Your real phone number so I can verify you. Google voice or "burner" numbers will not work. I am not going to be calling or texting you, I simply need it to match your name.

  • Your employment web presence: A link to your company website with your name. I will send a verification number to your business address from a non-published "vanilla" address.

  • A well-established professional LinkedIn profile. I will send a verification number from a "vanilla" account.

  • If you don't have any web footprint I will accept a copy of your drivers license. You will need to take a photo of the front and back. 

  • Optional (but extra credit to make a good impression): References from professional dommes  you've seen in the last 2 years.

I understand it can be scary to send your information, but I will assure you I do not share your information with anyone and I am the only person who goes through my email correspondence.  I've been in business for several years--- I'm a verified P411 provider since 2014 and have a strong presence with my community on Twitter. 

Here are some tips on making a great first impression when contacting a dominatrix or any erotic service provider.

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